You are not a bad mom.
Overwhelmed. Tired. Drowning in dishes and laundry and big emotions, yes, yes, yes.
But the Lord is FOR you. And if He is for you, nothing, not even a day of clogged plumbing, a throbbing headache, burnt sourdough, and a toddler screaming in the grocery store, can be against you.
You’re not a bad mom. You’re a righteous one.
Wiser Mothers offers prayerful mentorship for overwhelmed mamas who need a gospel-centered approach to peaceful, Spirit-led motherhood.
Dear you! Welcome to Wiser Mothers.
I’m Hillary, and I help overwhelmed mamas take a gospel-centered approach to peaceful, Spirit-led homemaking & motherhood.
Everything we do, believe, and experience as mothers influences our children: our words, our tone of voice, the look on our faces, the expression in our eyes, our need for forgiveness and grace, our prayers & the way we pray, how we eat & move, what we love, what we feed our bodies and souls, who we care about or criticize, and even our own chastening.
It ALL affects our babes—the books we choose to read to them, the content we consume, the church we attend, the friends we are surrounded by, the hobbies we have, how we set the atmosphere of our home, how we share the gospel and care for others, our humility (or lack of it), how we follow Scripture & obey the Lord, how we seek Him, how we love and respect their father…
Our beloved children, the very ones crawling at our feet and gathered at the dinner table, are emotionally & spiritually shaped by every part of our lives.
It’s a lot for anyone, but what about when you haven’t slept in days, have little to no support, are financially drained, feel like you’re drowning, entering peri-menopause, living with a physical disability, struggling with clutter, have children with special needs, are walking through the valley of the shadow, choking on loneliness, and so much more?
It’s impossible for you, but not impossible for the Lord.
Motherhood is a ministry like no other.
You, mama, are not perfect. But you were perfectly created and chosen for these unique and beloved little souls.
That’s why it’s vital to center your motherhood (and your marriage, your homemaking, your creativity—literally everything) upon the gospel: Jesus took your sin and gave you His righteousness.
Your job is to be needy and weak and to cling to the Lord.
Because being a good mother does not depend on you.
You are a one-of-a-kind mama with one-of-a-kind babes. Your home and family are beautifully unique, and there are no one-size-fits-all formulas for perfection or success. But, GLORY! The Holy Spirit is with you. He loves your children even more than you do, and He will guide you perfectly. You won’t have perfection in your homemaking and mothering, but you can have peace. And you will have all the wisdom you need to love and raise your children well.
The living God is FOR you. Let me be an encouragement. I’ll offer a listening ear, a calming presence, and Spirit-led biblical advice for what you’re going through. I would love to come alongside you for a season of prayerful, Spirit-led mentorship to help you discover a gracious, gospel-centered way to serve your loved ones and your home as the mother God created you to be.
Testimonials
Over the years I’ve worked with so many beautiful souls through 1:1 coaching, online classes, website design, and more. Here is what they said after working with me…
“Working with Hillary has truly opened my eyes to Spirit-led motherhood. After working with her, the words that were spoken are still lingering and helping me in my day to day as a new mother. Hillary has lived her wisdom, and her humble heart made me feel safe and loved. God is using Hillary and her work in the most profound way, and it’s easy to see that it’s coming from a close and sincere relationship with the Lord. I’m truly blessed that God put us together and will work Hillary in a blink of an eye again.”
— Anna Lindberg, @annaandjesus
I’d love to help you. What do you need?
One month of 1:1 support (four 1-hour sessions)
$795
This bundle of sessions includes 4 one-hour calls. We will meet face to face for one 60-minute mentorship call a week for 4 consecutive weeks. This is YOUR time, dear mama. Where do you need thoughtful, prayerful, biblical and Spirit-led guidance & support?
One 1-hour coaching call
$249
We will meet face to face over Telegram, WhatsApp or FaceTime for one 60-minute mentorship call. This is YOUR time, dear mama. Where do you need thoughtful, prayerful, biblical and Spirit-led guidance & support?
“The wise woman builds her house.”
—Proverbs 14:1a
Pour a cup of coffee and let’s talk.
(Babies are welcome, too.)
Sometimes we all need a listening ear, a hand to hold, and some gracious, biblical advice. This is real life, sister. You don’t need to get a babysitter (unless you just want to). For 1:1 support, I’m here.